[re Pink Lady Fleshlight] "Somehow the vibrator has become almost a staple part of a woman's or couple's sexlife - but ask about male masturbation products and all of a sudden you hit a taboo area. No man or woman really wants to think about such things.
Once you get you head around the idea that this is for taking solo masturbation to a new level then you're fine. And once you try this, 'stroking one out' with your hand will be a thing of the past.
There are 2 basic usages to this that I found. First off you can simply masturbate with it instead of your hand. By adjustinting the cap on the end more or less suction can be added on withdraw.
By warming up the sleeve first in water, and with the right amount of lube the feeling is great. Sometimes with a hand job you just rush it coz it's all about the result, the quick release of tension. The Pink Lady is about pleasure, about sensations, about experiencing the full stimulating 'solo-sex' session.
The other method has been called the 'shoe method', but lets not think too much about the name. By laying the Pink Lady down and placing a pillow or cushion over it you can lay on top and simulate sex. This takes practice, but to get the most from the device and to truly practice your techniques this is the only real way to use the fleshlight. Plus the orgasms are outstanding....
I've tested masturbation sleeves before and they were good, but they don't come close to matching the realism, the sensations or the pleasure that is derived from the Pink Lady.
The 30+ page book that comes with it is handy and will offer most men some good tips for when they get 'back in the saddle'. Until then the Fleshlight will keep them more than occupied.
- J, Hull
